I went on two dates with this girl I have had a soft spot for the last year. The dates went pretty nice we chatted, laughed and the time went by, but the problem is that I don’t know how to flirt while sober. Every hookup I have ever done is always on parties when I am very drunk. And when I try to flirt, I just feel like a creep. This results in that the dates and generally all other flirting situation ends in me being pretty static and I feel like I am just friend zoning myself. And for some reason I get so focused on being nice and not showing any romantic emotions, this often results in that I try to be “cute” and just being that funny guy.
I don’t know if it is because I am afraid of being rejected or what. But what I DO know is that it ends with rejection or just loss of interest from the girls. I also think it makes me look afraid and very overprotective which makes the girls I date afraid to flirt with me, or so I think.
So, do you fantastic random internet-people have any tips on how to be more romantic and flirty while dating or hitting up, sober or not?
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