Ok: this guy(28 M) and I (25 F) were casually involved throughout the winter but there was something about the other that caught the other’s attention. He was out of town for work a lot and I was moving in spring.
I moved and assumed we would leave things at: maybe one day our paths with align and timing will be right and then we will see what this could be.
Every couple of weeks we touch base talking about one day but what’s the point?
IVE DECIDED TO PUT MYSELF OUT THERE TODAY: and offer to move back until December. The pandemic has given us a unique chance to decide if we want to make some day today. So I’m going to tell him: if he’s ready and wanting to see what this could be – I’ll come back.
I’m nervous and I truly don’t know how it will go. He seems to not have the strongest sense of committal so I’m nervous but I know I need to do this because we either have to move forward together – getting to know each other and seeing what this could be because we don’t currently know or we need to go forward on our own and move on.
Open to advice on the conversation, in general and wishes of luck!
At the end of the day I’m more of a romantic than his rational self but I’m looking for honesty and if it doesn’t work out,if he isn’t up to see what this could be then I know it’ll be for a reason! I’m hoping I don’t come on too strong but I can’t hold back!
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