This was our second time meeting and our first “actual” date. We met up at a bar for drinks. I think we were both a bit nervous at first but eventually we both relaxed and made pretty good conversation throughout the entire date (I mostly let her talk). Before we met, she told me she had to leave by midnight, but when I let her know it was almost time she basically said “Its okay im in no rush”. We talked for about 2 and a half hours straight so I’m guessing she was pretty into it. Eventually we left around 1am and it was raining pretty hard so I offered her my jacket. I walked her to her car first, we said our good-bye’s, then I walked to my car. Literally as soon as I got to my car she text me “How perfect it would’ve been if you were to kiss me in the rain”. I replied “Nah, you gotta wait for that winking emoji”, but I felt like a complete idiot. We were sitting across from each other during our date so I didn’t get to touch her at all, and when we got to her car she was standing so far apart from me I didn’t think she would want to kiss. Also I didn’t want to make her stand in the rain while I worked up the courage to go for it. Overall I just wasn’t sure if it was the right time for a kiss. But I’m pretty sure this girl is into me so how can I not mess up again? Like how do I lead up to the kiss and then go for it? I was thinking about just grabbing her face and going for it if we’re close enough, but I’m rarely that bold. I also have ADHD which makes it pretty hard to read social cues sometimes, and this is only my second time dating a girl. We met on Tinder if that matters.
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