[i’m a 29F] i have been texting with to a guy i hooked up with a few times around 5 years ago. we had mutual friends and it was a casual thing that naturally came to an end after a few sleepovers. we both went on to have serious relationships for the next few years and are now both single. we’ve started texting again while under quarantine and last night, things got a little heated.
we had been texting for hours about non-sexual things and then the conversation to shifted to joking about sex and then finally he sends me a pic of himself shirtless in bed. i’m really into it and would love to hook up in person, so i’m surprised but excited. i send him some non graphic pics first and then i send him a video of me topless. he sends me a short one back. i’m super into it and have a lot of sexual frustration pent up so i send him a video of me masturbating. sorta went from 0 – 60 in terms of being graphic. his response was basically “damn” and “fuck” and then he said something “well on that note, i’m going to bed.”
now, i’m waking up this morning and feeling slightly embarrassed for going as far as i did. also, he sent me a pic and a 3 sec video and i sent like a minute of video. i don’t want to read too much into his texts because obviously it’s hard pick to up on emotion over text but i am hoping he was into it. i’m not entirely sure from how abruptly it ended.
anyway, advice i’m looking for is what to do now. so we sexted but i also really enjoyed talking to him about other things and getting to know him again. is that something i should text him “the morning after” acknowledging last night or just wait it out and let it come up naturally?
this is really casual for now but i am interested in getting to know him better and if we were under normal circumstances, would love to go out a few times and see where it goes.
thanks for your help!
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