(Short version posted at the bottom) There’s a lot of backstory about how we ended up separated (in different states, 1,000+ miles apart), but we did live in the same state and were talking for 3 months before we began dating… It’s been 6 months and I’m really in love with this girl. I love her and care about her with all my heart, but it seems like she’s going through the motions a lot. It’s made me beyond angry and beyond fearful of the future and what it holds for us. I’m beginning to really think that things are coming to an end. She’s been cooped up in her house only going out when she could really (when her parents would allow) and I’ve been secluding myself because I don’t want to meet someone else while I’m here, so everything for the most part has been good and easy. With the pandemic and working, it wasn’t that hard to talk every single day… it made it easy and fun and relaxing… so that’s what we’ve done. For 3 months we’ve talked nonstop every single day. Until recently, recently she’s begun to start going out with more people since the pandemic’s over. I want her to stay safe and also just to stay away from other guys since temptation really can get the best of you when your significant other is halfway across the country. What can I do to hold back my feelings of anger about her going out constantly and meeting up with all these friends and really guys that she’s hanging out with? It’s really making me miserable all the time and it’s so hard to not want to talk with her at the end of the day. It’s become a part of our routine, and suddenly that routine’s breaking but she doesn’t seem to care. She’s having fun and I feel like I’m making life miserable for her too. I don’t want to, I want her to be happy… but I also want to be with her so bad. I’m going to see her in less than a month now but things have been so hard lately and she just seems less interested as time progresses. Should I stop texting her? Should I stop trying to call? Should I ask her to stop hanging out with other guys? What can I do? Like really what can I do to make this last until at least the end of the month? I want to see her and hang out with her again and really settle down and talk before we just decide to break up. Any advice is appreciated.
We live 1,000 miles apart, have been dating for six months. She’s getting distant and hanging out with others while I’m trying to be alone so I don’t have to deal with temptation. I want her and only her. What can I do?
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