So I’ve (22F) been friends with this guy (22M) since high school we went out once but it wasn’t the right time so we broke up but remained good friends though we lost contact during sixth form & university and we recently started talking again.
He kinda said that he has liked me for a while but wasn’t sure if it was for the best because he has ‘non-negotiables’ which are things I actively do not meet, main ones being attending church every Sunday, not smoking and not drinking, though I don’t smoke or drink that often the odd wine with a meal or a good ol drunken clubbing night with the girls or occasional spliff would be nice. and I also have non-negotiables well not many just one main one, I’m vegetarian (desiring vegan) and for me it’s more than just a save the animals thing it’s mainly for health reasons and environmental reasons which have become big values of mine and I don’t think I can watch my partner supporting the agriculture industry like that and he stated he is a big meat eater so I don’t really know what to do
He has many qualities I look for in a man, and every now and then I do kinda fantasise a future with him but maybe this one is not for me?….
What do you guys think about our non-negotiables and non-negotiables in general?
Any advice?
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