I'm a male, 24. She is 22. Long story short I was dumped recently. After dating for four months my girlfriend ended the relationship, giving the reason that she believes I feel a stronger connection to her than she does to me. Fair enough. I can handle being broken up with, it's not the first time. She claims she wants to be friends now, and when I express how difficult that would be for me, she guilts me. Claiming I never really cared about her and just wanted to use her for love. I don't want to be friends with my ex. So far being "friends" has included her asking me advice about other guys. Long meaningful discussions about life, and sending each other memes. I still have feelings for her so I feel like a friendship between us would be ingenuine and full of jealousy. The idea of her coming to me with what's important while giving her time and affection to other people makes my stomach turn. I've tried to explain it all to her. Am I being an asshole? What would you do?
-From Orenji to the world.
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