My girlfriend cheated on me with a younger man.

I’m sorry but i just don’t know what to do. What to think or what to say.

I’ve been out of work because of the quarantine. I guess just spending 24/7 together has caused us to drift apart. We’ve been together almost 2 years and haven’t ever argued like this. We fight over literally everything. Even over stupid stuff, like when i put her shampoo on the bottom shelf, not hte top. So, i just figured i’d take an offer for work. My company needed a truck driver, i’m licensed to drive a truck so i took it. I thought a few days apart would be good for us.

Today, i came home. I thought i’d surprise her with flowers, but i told her i’d be gone a week longer then i actually would be.

But anyway, i came home but the door was locked. Even though her car was still there, and another car was parked on the curb. So i knocked, she came and let me in but started hugging me when she saw me. Like right away, I thought she really missed me. But that wasn’t it. I looked up and out of our bedroom, i saw, basically, a kid. He looked like he was someone like right out of high school. He was in his basically his underwear and trying to sneak out the backdoor. I was actually pretty furious, i didn’t know what i was thinking but i actually chased after him. But i couldn’t catch him, he got into his car and drove off.

I’m upset, not just because she’s cheating. But because it’s with someone so much younger too.

I demanded an explanation, she said it was my fault for leaving and that she just wasn’t attracted to me anymore. Because of the weight i’d put on since i’d been laid off from my old job. She said she just didn’t know what she was doing. That he messaged her on Facebook and started flirting with her, she’s been going behind my back and talking to him for over a month.

I yelled at her, demanded she show me her messages. But it wasn’t just the one guy, i saw several messages from 2 other guys talking about meeting up again. But then she switched it back on me. That doing this “Made her feel like a woman” and comparing my “Flabby” body to his “Defined” body. Then she started describing what it was like, i tried to tune it out but some of this stuff was just shocking. I was absolutely devastated. The last thing she said, was that the other 2 guys were this kid’s friends. He had been bringing them over for God Knows What. I just told her to shut up before she could tell me. I demanded she leave.

I mean, our sex life prior was fine, but since i put on some pounds, she basically had been “Dead-Fishing” me.

So…I have so many questions that i don’t even know where to begin.