I’m a F (22) & I don’t use main social media like Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter etc.
I’ve deactivated Facebook, IG, SC but still have the Facebook messenger, WhatsApp & 2 dating apps.
I just find I don’t need to use it. I don’t need / want to see things about other people’s lives, I don’t need to read quotes or see ads each day. If I want to know I send them a message & ask how they’re doing.
I know this can be hard when it comes to dating as we’ve all been there where either that person has really old pics or is on private. There is nothing for people to search of me. Only my Tinder pictures & bio or Hinge pics and answered questions. I don’t want children of my own, I don’t want to be with someone who has children or wants them biologically or through adoption or fostering. I have put “Child Free” on my profile yet I still get Dad’s trying to match, not reading what I’ve put, ignoring what I’ve put or maybe hoping I’ll change my mind or thinking I just don’t want my own biologically.
I’m actually fed up of people not reading my bio as I have clearly stated “I’m not on any main social media” as I was being constantly asked. Quite a few guys have asked if I have Instagram mainly, or Facebook or Snapchat. Rarely do I get asked for my number or if I we should continue talking on Facebook messenger. When I did use to use those social medias, it would either be crap conversations or them trying to send photos / ask for them on SC, them wanting a follower & to follow on IG, rarely & barely talk or Facebook to just stalk.
I’m even tempted to deactivate my dating profiles. Like really see what it’s like to get out there, socialise & date.
Has anyone else got minimal social media? How is it dating? Also anyone else wanting to be Child Free, how is it dating?
submitted by /u/FickleHighlight4
[link] [comments]