At this day and age where sexual expectations and values between genders are becoming more equal, I want to give some tips out to some you ladies from the perspective of a guy.
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If it’s not okay to tell a person that they are not up to physical standard, than why do some ladies think it’s okay Tell them that you’ve had bigger dicks. Some guys will act like you’re the most beautiful thing to them, when they have had hotter girls, just saying.
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On the same note, NOONE wants to hear about your past sexual history, unless that’s their kink or whatever. Jealousy and ego in a relationship is real and what you say could push or pull a guy, especially if it’s an comparison to how your current sex life is with them.
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Open relationship? Uhm, if you express it than you better be honest as fuck, not that last minute “oh didn’t I tell you I had a partner before our first date…” or knowing you want to open it later but you committed to a guy who is fully monogamous…don’t gamble with other people’s emotion, it’s rude.
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The same sexual values you attach to your casual relations should be the same one you attach to committed ones. Boundaries are important, and so are reasonability within expectations. This is a touchie one subject, but to be clear….PEOPLE WILL FEEL SOME TYPE OF WAY IF YOU EXPRESS WAITING FOR SEX BUT YOU BEEN HAVING BACK TO BACK CASUAL experiences prior to then. It usually isn’t the barrier that gets us guys, it’s the hypocrisy and comparison to a casual fling, and what he offers that they haven’t.
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It gets tiresome to have to initiate sex all the type, how about you initiate it sometimes. Too many relationships where I hear, “oh he doesn’t want to have sex with me…” after you have said no three times and just has given up on initiating it. Your sexual compatibility isnt based on the guys libido…plus we want to feel wanted.
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Starfish! Put some fucking effort in the bed, literally and figuratively. Some of your lay in bed and expect the guy to do everything and say he is shit in bed?!?!? Control the mood a little, get on top, doggy style, or at least express your sexual desires. He doesn’t suck, Your both suck together.
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Lastly, if both of your are hereto as fuck or ain’t your kink, than DONT expect a threesome of any Kinda. No girl wants to see a guy with another girl and vice versa. So don’t bring it up or mention it.
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