I (24M) have been recently coming out of a big relationship, and began talking to this girl (24F) I’m very interested in. She’s great, fun to be around, strong willed, charismatic, and a sweetheart. We’ve been having issues recently sexually because I haven’t been lasting too long in bed. It makes her very upset and she’s tried to break things off with me after this happens a couple of times now. Honestly I have been working a lot of extra hours and physically have been exhausted. I think that’s the biggest reason as to what’s been leading to this for us, but she is very much so upset with me and acting very distant. She tells me she thinks this might end up a serious problem for us overall if it persists. But on top of me working a lot recently we haven’t really been having consistent sex either which I also believe could be causing some reasons why it doesn’t last so long. This isn’t the first time I’ve done this with her, and I know it’s very possibly not the last. But it’s very embarrassing for me and I really have a strong interest in making things work with this girl. I feel hopeless sometimes and at a loss for what to do or even say to her when she asks me what we should do to remedy this. It has me very anxious about sex and I don’t think that’s going to help if I can’t find a way to either fix the situation or get passed the thoughts of it possibly ruining us. Any advice ? throwaway account
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