There’s this guy I’ll call him Ron and he always hits me up asking to hang. It never seem to happen due to our conflicting schedules. We’re supposed to go rollerskating and he was going to teach me, but it just never happened. I am honestly not sure if he likes me, but he does complement my selfies when I post them on social media. Ron is an overall nice and extroverted guy. I feel like he is way out of my league. He’s also really talented and is a great dancer.
Ron is one of the first guys I’ve actually been on a regular date that I haven’t met through online dating. I met him at a party and I’m not sure how he feels about me. I do feel scared, if hypothetically Ron ask me to be his girlfriend. I have never been in a situation where I was friends with the guy and we ended up dating.
He asked me if I wanted to watch a movie with him. We went to drive in as that is one of our options, when it comes to dating right now due to COVID-19. He was such a gentleman and opened my door. He even complimented my outfit ☺️ and bought our movie tickets ?. I hope we get to hang out again. He was so easy to talk to and we have a lot of interests in common. I texted him when we got home and he asked to hang again soon and we will go on a picnic and he’ll teach me how to roller skate.
Overall, I feel scared I feel like I bring nothing to the table. I do not know why he likes me maybe it’s just my looks, but he does think I’m funny I guess.I’m not really talented in singing, dancing, or anything creative in general. Ron’s a really talented dancer and he’s great at acting. I’m probably just insecure, I know I’m not ugly, but at the same time he’s surrounded by a lot of pretty girls. I’m pretty confident in how I look, but there are times where my eating disorder and body dysmorphia come back to haunt me. I do not compare to the girls tbh. They are all so pretty, have great personalities, and creatively talented.
I feel like he is way out of my league. I am probably just not used to dating a nice guy or even been treated this kindly before by a man whose my age. It’s really hard dating right now especially where I live. The guys in my area aren’t that great and only want a one time fling. I have been ghosted a lot and only been used for hookups. One of the reasons why I got off the dating apps is because I hated the hook up culture. I am scared that if we have sex he is going to ghost me ? I told myself to not expect a lot from this and just enjoy hanging out for now. I really hope things turn out well with Ron and if it doesn’t I hope we remain great friends for a long time.
TLDR: Hanged out with a guy who is out of my league and had a great time. Not sure if it was a date or just a platonic hangout ? If it was a date, I’m confused on why he would like me ?
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