For context me and my ex broke up roughly 2 years ago, since then I can’t say I’ve been on many dates ( 1 to be exact ) and I’ve tried putting myself out there. My problem is, well that’s the part I’m not quite the sure of, I want to date and develop a romantic connection with someone, on the flip side of that I often find myself kind of wanting my ex to come back.
I like to think I’m over her, to a degree, but I don’t really put much effort into finding someone, I swipe through tinder but often close the app after a couple minutes simply because everyone I see isn’t quite what I’m looking for.
I guess what I need advice on is do I really want a relationship for the right reasons ? Or am I just lonely ? Or do I want my ex back ?
Therein lies my dilemma I don’t really know where I’m at and what I want, I know these things come naturally but I’m quite an impatient person ?
I know this is probably a difficult one to answer but any help or advice that could be provided would be greatly appreciated.
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