Well, this is a bit odd but I don't have someone to talk to about it IRL so here ir goes. I met this girl about 2 months ago because of a group of online friends who like to play video games and while a little cold to me at first, she started texting me out of the blue one day and so our little online relationship was born. She lives like 700 miles away from me and she has a boyfriend, but very early she would tell me I was handsome and would speak to me in a very flattering /sexy way sometimes. I know some girls are like her and I know that girls giving compliments to men shouldn't mean a lot, but I took my chance I told her I liked her and asked her if she would date me if she didn't have a bf. She was a little nervous but she said yes and it's been going like this ever since, we are a little bit closer now.
We speak every day for like 4 to 6 hours, she tells me a lot about her and her life, heck, we've even discussed what she enjoys sexually. Having said that, she says she's loyal to her bf and will continue to be and she tells me details about her sex life with him, which feels to me like she's giving me the friendzone treatment.
I'd like to know if you think it's worth continuing to want something with this girl or if I should try to date other women (thing is, I really like this girl, so I fear looking unavailable /uninterested in her after I just told her I liked her.
BTW she's 20, I'm 28
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