How do you deal with someone orbiting you and if you’ve done it, why? Orbiting is when someone keeps up with your social media but doesn’t stay in contact with you. Being the orbitee creates a lot of self doubt. I’ve had two people who I was getting close with suddenly drop off from the face of the earth (during Covid times so I’m a bit more forgiving than usual). They both watch all my snaps but don’t try to talk to me (one has said that they’re going through something and are in a weird headspace, which is still odd that they’re keeping up with what I’m doing while the other just stopped opening up my chats). If you orbited someone, what was your purpose? Was there some sort of anxiety that kept you from taking to them but still keeping tabs? If you’ve ever been orbited during these times of online dating and covid stay at homes, how did you deal with it and how did your relationship end up with that person?
I’m very curious as I’m the type of person where if I don’t like you enough to reply back, I won’t be interested in any aspect of your life so I’m curious about the modern dating orbiting trend.
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