This is for y’all who like to give people the benefit of the doubt: If you are with someone who does shitty things and says they can’t change, believe them! That means they are unwilling to change — either because of their own issues, or because they are not willing to put the work into the relationship. You might want to be there for them and forgive them for their mistakes, but ultimately if they are closed off to changing they will likely repeat the same behavior, causing you to get hurt time and time again. I had to learn this lesson the hard way This is your permission to let them go and find someone who will learn and grow with you (:
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