No judgement here by any means, but for those out there who've sent nudes to someone prior to meeting them (with their consent, to be clear…)
- Why did you do it?
- Did it lead to a date?
- If so, do you think it helped your efforts, and if not, do you think it hurt them?
From my personal experience:
- I thought it would make my match more interested in me and prevent them from ghosting
- Only once, and almost in others. It never was the reason behind there not being first a date, though.
- It probably helped in that one instance, but in retrospect, I should have seen it as a red flag. For the instances it didn't lead to a date, I think sending nudes prior to meeting someone is both a thrill when both people enjoy them, but then the connection's potential fizzles out just as quickly because you jumped the shark.
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