I hope none of the terms I use are offensive, just wanted to understand what I'm talking about. I'm talking about girls who actively seek out casual sex either on apps, at bars, parties, whatever.
My girlfriend had a promiscuous past and I'm just trying to understand her better. Here are some of the problems I've ran into.
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Does sex inside of a relationship get boring after awhile? The first three months or so of our relationship she seemed genuinely interested in sex. Now, she rarely seems really interested. It's like a "yeah we can" or at best "yeah let's go". I worry that she needs variety to be satisfied, rather than the same guy always.
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Are you comfortable with emotional intimacy? I sometimes worry that my girlfriend had so much sex without intimacy that she's almost wired for that. Like she doesn't know how to have emotionally intimate sex because most of her past experiences were not emotionally intimate.
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Are there sexual acts you'd be more open to doing with a casual partner? Are there sexual acts you'd be more open to doing with a romantic partner?
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For those who are currently in LTRs (or at least, committed relationships), do you ever fantasize about going back to hooking up and living that lifestyle again?
That's about it for now. If anyone's interested I may have some more questions if I can think of any.
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