Does anyone else feel like they want to date someone but at the same time it feels like something isn’t right? Lately I found myself daydreaming about relationships, but at the same time I feel like I’m not up for dating because I feel like I’m not at my best. I feel like I have really high expectations when it comes to the partner I want, but I don’t “look for one” bc I know that I could offer way more than I have right now. Like, I know who I am and what an awesome person I am (not to ring my own bells but I gotta give myself that recognition) but I think that bc I don’t have my shit together rn, the men who meet me would probably not get that vibe and therefore nothing would come out of it. Idk if it makes sense, it’s just a big mess in my head rn, but basically what I’m trying to say is that I feel like I’m emotionally ready for a relationship, but my subconscious mind is telling me I’m not bc I could be so much better and rn I’m not. Please tell me some of you can relate so I don’t feel like I’m nuts or smth.
submitted by /u/ashadavis00
[link] [comments]
