Long story short I've been talking to this girl I met online before the quarantine. We've been talking nearly every day since and Skyping a few times a week. We sound almost like a couple when we Skype. We've grown to be pretty close and great friends but a few red flags have come up..
After one week of knowing her, she got really drunk sent me a bunch of nudes, and told me about her sex addiction. I did appreciate the nudes (she has a very nice athletic body) and I wouldn't mind having a REALY HORNY GF but at the same time I'm probably not the only one she sent that to… She let me know the next day that she doesn't normally do that and felt kind of turned off by the whole thing.
Relating to the sex addiction she opened up to me about her past sexual encounters. She told me she had a phase of having a different guy over every day. She didn't give me a specific number but I am assuming 20+ in that time period. While I do appreciate this honesty it was kind of a turnoff since I'm not one to casually sleep around. I've only been with 4 people.
She also has opened up to me about her depression which I really admire. But I'm worried I wouldn't know how to handle that in a relationship. Or if I'm not around/ or we're fighting she would go back to her old ways of handling the depression…
To me, these stand out as red flags. I treat her well and with respect so that's probably why shes so comfortable opening up to me. But it's kind of moving too fast for having never met…
Would you say these are red flags? What's the best way to handle this situation? She where it goes or end it?
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