She canceled our plans last second and I got mad at her. And then she blew me off when she was supposed to call me. Now I feel bad and I want to send an apology just so there isn’t any tension between us.

She’s been cancelling plans pretty frequently because she has been really busy with family drama, school and work and now she has to find a place for her younger sisters to live.

On Thursday she said we should meet at her place at 8. And around 8:15 I had to text her again and she responded saying she didn’t think she could and I kind of blew up on her saying I deserve more respect than that.

She said she would call me yesterday and she never did. I was hoping to clear the air over the phone and since she is having a lot of stress in her life I want to apologize by saying something like “Hey, I was thinking about way we left things off the other day and I wanted to apologize. While I still don’t think the way you’ve been handling our plans was right or fair to me, you did tell me you had a lot on your plate you definitely don’t owe me anything. I shouldn’t have kept pushing it, and I’m not proud of that. I just felt like I should say that, no hard feeling from me. If things slow down for you sometime in the future maybe we could try this again”

Would that be a good idea?