Should I give up on dating?

Hey everyone I’m a 24m, I’ve been out of a toxic relationship for about a year now. I’m between I’ve been growing and giving myself room for self improvement. In the span of the last 2 months I been going on dates, had interesting conversations but I got told the same thing from the last 2 girls. Girl 1 says I’m cute this and that. We FaceTimed had a good conversation made her laugh and what not. She invited me the same night to downtown but I didn’t go because downtown simply isn’t my thing anymore. After that she ghosted me but watches My social media stories everyday. I confronted her and all she said was it was cool chatting it up and also proceeds to saying “there has been a change of plans guess you can say”. Girl # 2 oh man so we met on bumble , we talked thru text first couple days we hit it off, we both find each other attractive . We went on one date it went well, I then invite her on a second date this date went well as well. As we get back to my house so she can get her car to home before she leaves she says I should hit her up some more. The other days I told her how I felt about her that she has caught my interest she then proceeds telling me we are not the match each other I was okay with that but she then says you’re really cute and loves my spiritual side. She’s looking for some one more grounded. She proceeds to say she loves her relationship with Stark Reality…. oh btw she has psychosis sounds crazy but I didn’t mind at all. So basically wtf? I am in no rush but why am I having this luck? I feel like I drive some of these women away because I’m really aware of my self, self consciousness and I’m pretty awake so I feel like they realize they can’t play me…..