Should I let her go?

Hi everyone,

I [28 M] met this girl [24F] at a bar in August last year. We talked a lot and hit it off really well and we have been talking/snapchatting for 6 months (I was living in another country at the time). She ended a 8 year relationship a year ago, while I have been single for 7 years as I have not been in a rush with getting a girlfriend.

When we were talking she would tell me she misses me, send pictures of couples and referred that to us, telling me our names matches and so on. Of course this will create some expectations that she is interested in me.

When I moved back to my country she wanted to see me and so we met. From the start she let me know she wasn’t looking for a relationship which kind of caught me off guard a bit since she’s been talking this couple stuff, regardless I accepted that as a relationship is not my main focus right now. We hung out and made dinner together, she spent the night. I could tell there was a connection as we have great chemistry and everything flows easily.

After we hung out she told me that she needed some time to work on herself, that she liked to take things slow and she wanted to remain friends as she still would like to get to know me, which I agreed to. We have had sex after she told me this. I don’t catch feels easily but I’m catching myself thinking a lot about this girl and it is not helping in lockdown. In addition I see she is active on dating apps which makes me wonder if she still is interested or looking for someone else.

Now the texting/snap is once or twice per week and due to the virus I don’t want to push anything even though I want to see her. I don’t want to risk hurting myself by waiting till she is “ready” and then she will end up dating someone else. Should I let her go or is this someone I should pursue?