my partner and i were having a discussion tonight about how i feel unloved in the relationship. they told me that they love me more than anything and we started talking about other issues we’ve had in the past and they said that they never mean to hurt me but that they’ve lied on a couple different situations because they thought the truth would make me hate them. i think i’m an open person, we are both very insecure and deal with it a lot, we give each other constant reassurance. i understand being scared i hate them but lying. that’s also been the one thing i was so scared of and they promised me several different times that they’ve never lied. i’ve been in past relationships that really messed me up. believing people i shouldn’t have, being lied to to my face and not being able to tell, giving too many second chances. i can’t trust my own judgement, how do i know anything is true anymore. i thought if i loved them enough it would make everything okay but it’s not, i’m just hurting but the thought of separating makes me want to be sick.
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