Hi! So I've (20M) met this girl (23) in my class, I added her on Facebook, like eachother posts, then move to instagram and chat for a while and I've recently ask for her number and chat there since. We've been talking almost nonstop since last week and I've thrown down some… hints so she gets that I don't only want to be friends; I get very insecure sometimes but I think the majority of them landed, some not; she is kinda oblivious.
Regarding the chats, she's not very good at talking but for what I know chat's been pretty good. What do I mean? I'm usually the one that brings up the topics and although she is very pasionate about the mayority of them, her messages are sometimes short and more often than not we end up talking about me (I appreciate the interest, clearly, but IDK I don't want to drown the conversation with stuff about me.)
So, about me…. I'm not the best with women. My last experiences were two thirsty girls who didn't care about my feelings and a girl with daddy issues who almost drove me crazy; after that I entered on a "Hyatus" of sort and forgot about relationships for 2 years maybe. A friend of mine is helping me with this topic (probbably will show her this) but I don't want to anoy her with this toppic very much. Another thing obout me is that I'm a bit romantic. I like those cheesy love scenes in 80´s movies and the "Gentleman" way if doing things (You know open the door, ladies first, I help you sit down, give you my coat if cold or rainning). I just think you should know that.
Why do I write this? Because the more I know about this girl the more I like her. We are into mostly the same games, hobbies, she is really passionate about her career and interested on mine, she is smart, VERY pretty, very nice, gentle and funny. We've been playing the new Animal Crossing a bit, spending some time together but here's the thing; due to current worldwide context we are not even legally alowed to go out, by this time I'd ask her out. We have plenty of excuses to do so but we just can't so my fears are to end up friendzoned if this continues like this, just being island neighbours, gaming now and then and just texting. Quarentine has been long here, since 03/20 until 05/10 and they may extend it.
So, I know I just met her, just over a week but I want to do my next big move somewhen near, maybe a couple of weeks or next week, heck, maybe you say I should do it now, I would! The thing is I don't quite know what to do now. I need advice redditors, how and what about text her (Am I already doing good? maybe the frequency is too much IDK) and what should be my next move. Or maybe I'm just worrying too much, let me know what you think.
TL;DR I've met THE girl, I'm quite unexperienced, due to COVID-19 and quarentine I don't know what to do next and I really don't want to mess my chances this time.
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