Hi y'all. I'm a bisexual in a lesbian relationship. I've only been with another girl before this current relationship, and in the past I was mainly the "giver" and my ex told me I was good and all (although I was her first, too.).
Right now, I'm with my girlfriend of 4 years, and I don't think she's really satisfied with what I do. She tells me I'm too rough, even if I've been trying to be gentle. Or that she didn't like something I did, even if she was moaning while I was doing it. It's been four years of this and it has been frustrating. Every time I hear her say she didn't reach orgasm, I feel bad and end up crying or losing confidence. Whenever I do have confidence, I make her feel good, but she still doesn't orgasm. She says I'm good with foreplay, but bad at the actual penetrative sex. I know that her ex girlfriend was a better giver, but she always tells me that it was only good because she was a virgin then and was more sensitive.
I really love her, and I know she really loves me. I think sometimes she's faking her orgasms or moans. I don't really know what to do. She says it's okay, but I want her to feel good about sex with me. I'm scared that maybe we're just not sexually compatible, ot that maybe I'm just really bad at it.
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