Still Seeking Second Date

Hi Reddit, I’m kinda beating myself up today and I could use some support. I’ve recently jumped back into the dating scene and I absolutely hate it. Dates have never been easy to come by for me, and I never seem to get a second one. I took my date out for waffles and coffee, we had a lot in common, and it seemed to be good on both fronts. Eleven hours later, I get the “we both want different things” speech. I’ve crashed and burned so many times, I’m starting to feel like I’m the problem… Thoughts?