When it comes to start crushing on someone or initiating an interest, take a step back, and look at the big picture. Research a little. Are they actually single and free from drama in their life. Cause if you think you cAn hElp them coming out of it, buddy that can be sucha a disaster in your life. I'm being serious here, because I recently ended up wasting freakin 10 months behind someone who had been through bad relationships before, still hadn't moved on and had some childhood traumas. It was my worst mistake to invest so much time in a package full of troubles and worries.
But that enlighted me to pursue only those people who are "healed". If you go behind someone thinking they'll eventually fall for you if ya help them come out of their dark phase, mark my words- you'll fall in it too.
Felt like sharing this and hope it helps someone before they enter in a black hole in the form of a human.
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