Seriously. Do yourself a favor and just break the cycle if you don’t like it!
Just wanted to give some advice in case anyone is feeling what I’ve been feeling lately. I’ve never been a fan of the “games” in dating and hate when you’re getting to know someone because you don’t usually know where you stand and it can lead to a lot of anxiety. I’ve just decided to do away with being coy and letting guys know how I feel and what I’m looking for pretty quickly. Or at least asking them where they are. Do they want to keep talking? Are they still interested? Are they looking to date or just make friends?
I’ve recently done this with two guys and learned that a relationship is not going to come from either situation (at least not now, maybe not ever), but now we all feel much more relaxed and can just enjoy each other’s company! And it’s SO FREEING.
So, do yourself a favor…if you’re dropping subtle hints, agonizing over how long it’s been since he/she last texted, or trying to play dating games (let him come to you, make him work for it, don’t be needy…) just drop the BS and tell the person what you want and see if you’re on the same page. If they like you and it’s supposed to work out, it’ll be fine.
If not, maybe you can just be friends. If that’s too weird or if they’re just a sucky human: drop them and move on!
It’ll make your life so much happier and make dating a much more pleasant experience. Cheers to you all and good luck out there!! ❤️
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