Don’t know if Im venting or asking for advice really.
I’ve been stuck in this situation for a few years now, where I go out on Tinder dates or bars or whatever and meet girls, we go home and do the deed and for the most part we don’t see each other again. I’ve been told Im good looking and fun, and on the outside it does appear that I am in fact successful with women.
The thing is, in the last 3-4 years I’ve only been interested (in having something serious) in two girls. And when I’m having these feelings they are pretty intense and I can’t control the extent of my emotions, so I get quite obsessed with them.
In both those cases the girls seemed very interested in me at first, we dated for a while, but at some point they distanced themselves from me, and after a while we just stopped seeing each other.
I don’t think I did anything wrong, but maybe my vibe could have scared them off a bit, although I never made mention of feelings or pressuring them into a relationship. I do believe that me having these feelings makes me nervous and unable to open up as well as I could if I didn’t care. So I guess: any advice for that?
To be honest I’ve been feeling like shit about it, I don’t even have the excuse of saying that girls aren’t attracted to me, they are and are then repelled by my personality. Lol
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