The guy I went on a few dates with doesn’t want anything serious

I was a little upset, but understanding. They were so respectful and understanding of me. I honestly hope I can find another guy like him but I’m really not looking right now nor do I want too. Really wanted things to workout with him. But he made it clear that he wasn’t looking for a relationship right now. I’m a virgin and let him know. this was in part why I wanted to try for a relationship, I really don’t just want to fuck and have no possible future with him. We made out. Hugged and laid down and talked..shit We even touched each other and everything. If I’m Honest he had a really nice dick. Lol. Now I’m upset because I felt like are personalities were great for each other. He did explain that he has a lot of things going on in his life and a big move so a lot of things are uncertain for him. We are a bit distanced in terms of where we live and it’s hard for me because I don’t have a car. I just spent a lot of money on Uber today. But I wouldn’t mind it personally. I had a good time. He said we could meet every once in a while and see how things go. He actually said he was fine with us not having sex and still meeting. Well I’m happy but also a bit unhappy. I told him that it’s not like I don’t want to have sex with him I do. In fact he’s the rare guy I want to have sex with. Told him this is all new to me so I’m a bit nervous and I don’t know how I would feel if it wasn’t serious. He said he had an experience where he lost his virginity and became clingy and it sucked because the other person wasn’t really serious and didn’t want a relationship. I told him I can understand and I’m almost sure that’s why I don’t want to loss my virginity that way. But my issue is I really do want to have sex. Should I just do it? At least I’ll know he will treat me right…right? And that we may not be official couple but he seems like a person I enjoy being around but the whole attachment factor..is a big thing and I cant say for sure how I’ll feel after. I already do feel a bit attached to them.

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