I (24F) have been talking to the same guy (26M) for a few months. We have a really great connection, and we’ve both been open about how we’re focusing on our mental health and bettering ourselves and aren’t quite ready for an official relationship.
There’s a strong physical and mental connection. We can talk about anything together and he keeps me intellectually stimulated in conversation (which seems impossible these days) But, whenever he opens up to me more or we have a really great day together he can clam up a day or two later. I know he isn’t much into his emotions and he’s working on himself, but I can’t seem to understand why he pulls away every time we get just a little closer to each other. He usually acts normal again after a couple days but it’s just strange to me.
Does anyone know what could be going on? I care about him a lot and I wonder if he’s just afraid of things becoming too serious or something. Maybe I’m overthinking ??♀️
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