The guy that I have been dating regularly ignores my messages and it makes me feel insecure

I have been dating this guy for a couple of months now and it’s going great, except for one thing. He often doesn’t reply to me for hours. Don’t get me wrong I don’t mind at all that he’s busy sometimes and I give him all the space he needs. I have my own life too and know how important it is to give each other some space. The thing however is, it kind of hurts when I text him and he doesn’t reply for 6 hours, yet he’s been online the entire day. He does this almost daily now. Sometimes he even leaves me on seen. He has also done this when he’s not busy at alI. I would really appreciate it if he just said something like “Hey sorry I’m busy now but I’ll get back you later”. It only takes a second and communicating is very important. Seems way more considerate than just not saying anything at all. I’m probably overreacting, but it makes me feel insecure and anxious. I just feel like he isn’t into me as much as he used to be.

Side note: besides this there aren’t any signs at all that he doesn’t like me. He is honestly the sweetest person I have ever met and he often lets me know that I make him happy etcetera etcetera. There aren’t any other red flags whatsoever.

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