Let’s talk about how men control women or “run game”
In order for a man to be in control of you the first thing is
that he needs you to care about him first otherwise he cannot control you! if a
guy that you don’t care about is throwing tantrums is manipulating or is losing
emotional control on you you’ll just block or ignore him.
but if you are invested in
him and you care about him it’s a different story , so the first thing that men
will try to do is to make you care about them, how do they do this?
First comes low investment behaviour, which is basically just flattery
and promises, as we woman usually are pretty naive and the majority of us love
compliments and promises here and there he starts by throwing these at you. A
higher investment from a man would be giving you than just words but actual
actions as well.
As soon as a man sees that you care about him a bit more and
more he will start playing games, he will pull back, take away the compliments
and stop giving as much in other areas.
Now if he stops giving and
you care about him, you will get insecure as you will be wondering what
happened and what went wrong, also now that you are emotionally involved it’s
more frightening for you since you don’t want to get hurt, so this is when women
tend to start chasing and giving more whilst at the same time giving the man
complete power and control over them. They start to assume that the more nice
and kind I will be the more he will care and love me. This is wrong, it does
not work like that, a man that is in control of you loses his attraction for
you and eventually leaving you because you’re not fulfilling his love needs by
submitting to him and letting him control you
There’s a very good saying for men that if you cannot control
your woman she’s the real deal
So instead of letting a man control you and run game, get bored
and then leave you, turn the tables, take control of your own emotions and your
life so he can’t manipulate you or take advantage!
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