The title needs some work, but I am really not sure about this girl. I’m just having doubts about her and I’m afraid that I’m too naive about her.
It all starts like this: We match up on a dating app, chatting was just out of this world right at the start, didn’t feel, you know, like forcing yourself to reply, everything just flowed soo smoothly with this girl. she is a 7, but a smart girl will be always more attractive to me, than a dumb 9/10. She is a med student, which I was really excited to ask more about this stuff, so I asked her out. I pick her up, we hug, I give her a compliment, and we go to the city’s park to get a coffee. We had a blast taking about alot of things and she decided to open up more. She started talking about her stomach condition. Basically, she has the most weakest stomach ever. She almost can’t eat anything, because she’ll just throw everything up, pass out and get hospitalized for 2 days. Right from the start I just felt very sympathetic for her. It’s honestly very sad, when you can’t try out new food, fearing, that you’ll be hospitalized. The next part is what I guess I am a bit “concerned”. You know how people who are doctors always tell stuff like that they love to help people, well, she said the opposite. She hates everyone. She straight up said that, and the only reason that she is a med student now, is to figure out what is wrong with her, because she had a million test, and no doctor could tell what is wrong with her stomach. And after she graduates, she would want to have a med job, that involves as little as possible talking or helping other patients. During the date, this was very interesting to me, but I guess I just brushed it off, and went on with the date. We both said we want to meet more during the summer. As I am laying in the bed now, I’m just thinking about it all. What felt rather normal, now it feels very “off”. Should we continue to see each other, or should I walk away now? Any advice will help!
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