Tinder advice : to ghost or to reject ?

Hey guys,

I have recently installed Tinder. I talked to a few guys, and one of them kind of stood out. We decided to meet tomorrow and see if we get along in persona as well. So far so good !

But I also have 2 other guys asking me for a date, but I don't feel like it since I prefer having one date at a time, even though I am not looking for anything serious (I will be out of town anyway by August !)

I don't really know what to answer but don't want to ghost them either (I hate ghosting !). So guys, what would you prefer in that case, what kind of message ? I was thinking something like "sorry I already have a date this week so it feels wrong to be up for a drink with someone else and I don't want to lead you on, Id rather be honest !"

What do you think ? Is ghosting better ? Do you have other suggestions ?

Edit : typo, damn you french autocorrect ! Sorry for the grammar

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