To the guys who’ve zombied and been ignored – what’s going on in your head?

There's a guy I matched with on Bumble last month and we hit it off instantly. We hung out for two weekends straight and texted everyday until he didn't respond to my last text (which happened to be a sext). I accepted that I was ghosted until he hit me up 10 days later at nearly 2am saying, "Hey 🙂 what are you doing next weekend?" I ignored the text because, no matter how casual it was (he nor I are looking for anything serious), ghosting is still rude and it did bruise my ego during the time I didn't hear from him.

Now that I've ignored his messages, I'm wondering – to the guys who've been in his position (ghosted a person only to return as a zombie, but got ghosted himself) what's the thought process that goes on in your head once you realize you've been left on read?

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