My original post is here, and I‘ve texted the guy since. He had last messaged me Friday, 24th April. His last message was cute and flirty and about meeting up for an evening in the next few weeks. I gave him space since he‘d said before he was a) not a texty person and b) feeling down due to the lockdown. I messaged again on Sunday, 3rd May just to say „Hey, I‘ve not heard from you, how are you doing?“. No reply.
Following this, I sent a message on Wednesday saying that I hoped he and his loved ones were safe and the lockdown‘s nearly over, BUT that he had agreed to keep in touch regularly because it cheered us up. His ignoring me hurt my feelings. And that I liked consistency and people who keep their word. And I had trusted him, had I been wrong to trust him? Again, no reply.
I suppose, I‘m officially ghosted. I‘m sad, angry and disappointed. There were many times where he (re-)affirmed his interest and wanting to see me regularly. He could have – instead of saying he wants to see me – just told me he doesn‘t. 🙁
I guess I‘m going to spend the next few days doing a lot of EFT tapping to help me emotionally process this ghosting. I was so excited and now I‘m so disappointed. Thank you everyone on here who took their time to comment!
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