I unmatched the guy. Last night was the final straw.
Last weekend I had gone to my friends house. They wanted an update…
He told me if another woman approached him and wanted to be his girlfriend he’d consider it. BUT he’d talk to me about it first.
The besties told me he was a dick and I deserved better. While at my friends house he was messaging me, and asked if my friends had asked about him. I said yes. He wanted to know what they said. I told him. He became defensive.
Fast forward to last night. He had told me up to this point he was falling in love with me, could see himself marrying me, etc. (Red flags as all we’ve done is chat on a dating app a little over a month.) He told me he didn’t love me anymore because of what my friends said, “I don’t know how much influence your friends have over you,” and that he’s suddenly afraid/panicked/felt vulnerable.
The conversations were like pulling teeth and he was putting in no real effort at all. I feel more relief than anything.
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