Was this guy trying to show some interest while I was clueless about it?

months ago I was selected to participate in an international course for people who are chronically ill and try to fight stigma associated with it. Among participants, there were 3 other people from my country and one of them was this guy. Last week my grandma died and I left a message on the group chat saying that I would be away for a few days because of this. 1 day later I get a private message from this guy (who lives in my country) saying that he is sorry about it and that he also wishes me strenght to deal with my disease and life in general. I thanked him and told him I wish him the same. Then he texted me saying "sorry if I was intrusive by private messaging you" and telling me he wishes me well again. I think he is cute and from what I have seen in the group, I like his way of thinking so I "opened the game" and then told him that he was not intrusive, much to the contrary, its always nice to feel supported and that if he ever feels the need to talk, he can text me. "After all, I studied psychology in college so it must be of good use", I told him. He then tells me that I can also text him whenever I feel like it and that it's nice that I studied psychology, it sounds like an interesting area. With everything that was going on in my life during those days, I didn't think too much of it and stopped replying. We never chatted again since then

Do you think he was trying to show interest in myself? It took him hours to get back to me, but in the group chat it takes him days to respond as well. I haven't dated in years so I am not even sure of what is what anymore…

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