So, I (28F) met this man (30M) on tinder. He’s an entrepreneur working for 4 different companies, very busy yet he made himself available at all times to see me, for the first two dates. We had a great time and he turned out to be such a quality gentleman. Prior to meeting, we were texting all the time and having deep personal conversations, and when we met, he seemed serious about us having a relationship together, and I know he really meant it.
Unfortunately, the worst happened.. we had sex on the second date. We were both extremely horny, he was begging for it, and I gave in. Not to please him, but because I’ve been single for a while and I really had the urge for it XD
It was amazing. He was still texting me afterwards, but then his texts slowly diminished in frequency, until they stopped altogether. If I text or ask him to call, he’s quite responsive, but it’s been over 2 weeks since I last saw him (he’s always “extremely busy”, lol). Obviously, the excitement and novelty are completely gone and he’s just not as interested anymore. (Surprise surprise! Lol).
I don’t want to hear that I should just move on. I want ideas on how I can spark his interest again and drive him crazy for me.. How do I recreate that sense of novelty, and make him feel like he’s only gotten a taste of me, but there is so much more, and that he’s totally missing out??
I’m thinking perhaps I could suggest a meetup scenario that will intrigue him so much that he will be down and looking forward to it.. and then I would tease him a little, and spark his interest again.
I’m not trying to be evil or manipulative lol, just want to repair my stupid mistake of giving myself away too soon, and see whether we would have a shot at a relationship or not. I’m sure many of you have been able to overcome this, so any helpful tips and specific scenarios are welcome!!
Thanks in advance xx
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