After a huge unsuccessful stint on dating apps I just stopped using them and just put my profile up there in case anyone is interested and never gave a fk about it. Strangely enough, suddenly there is a girl who's super interested in me, but then I was acting kinda passive about it as I was kinda over online dating lol, but there was still quite a good connection so I went out on a few dates with her which went really well! But I realised that it's not just her, suddenly there's quite a few other girls who hit me up out of the blue lmao…
Basically, TLDR I just went on with my life and stopped trying hard, and suddenly girls are starting to be attracted to me… Very counterintuitive indeed!
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