Short and sweet!
Just realized it has been nearly 6 months since I (23f) broke up with my (22m) boyfriend of two years. No contact, nothing. I had to pat myself on the back. I wanted to call him and see him so bad for the first few months after I broke up with him. It was my first heartbreak and it was horrendous, physically painful nearly. But it was for the best. I was unhappy – he had no zest for life, always worried about spending money to its extreme and basically took me for granted. I even used to write his CVs and cover letters! (Girls, you’re not his guidance counselor!) Unfortunately we have mutual friends but we avoided the topic of asking how one another is. It’s so tempting to say, “oh by the way how is X getting on with…” etc. Don’t do it. Focus on yourself, remember how the bad outweighed the good. I haven’t contacted him in 6 months! And last month I met a fab French guy who I’m going on road trip with next month. Sometimes life just works out for the better! P.S. Block them on all media platforms!
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