I (23F) was seeing someone (26M) for about a month and a half. Everything seemed to have been going great, we agreed on a lot of things we wanted in life and were very open and honest about our pasts and what we wanted in the future. We were going on dates and he would take these cute photos and video then make collages and I thought he was becoming invested so I asked if he would want to be exclusive and he agreed. Throughout that week after we didn’t talk as much as we did before but I figured it was okay because I didn’t want to smother cause I am not that type of person. We made plans for the weekend but when we met it felt very different and distant. He said he had a conversation with a few people in his family and he felt that because of what has happened to me in my past that he didn’t want to move forward in the relationship not knowing if I was what he wanted for sure. He said he felt that everything about me was what he wanted but also felt that there was just something missing and didn’t want to waste my time trying to find it. He then proceeded to ask if we could remain friends and continue to do the things that he had planned for us to do because he really enjoyed my company and the conversations we would have. I told him I wasn’t sure if we could be friends and he wanted to give me a hug which I then denied. Fast forward to a few days later I had snapped a picture of myself in a dress for my story and he messaged me saying “that’s one hell of a dress and I’m not even a fan of dresses” now I’m not sure about you guys but it seems to me that there are still feeling there? Am I wrong?
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