30(M)Also, will there be any without kids? i know its slim chance, but would you say 15% don't have one?
Short info on my issue/problem:A lot of people put me down over the years of growing up and I just never learned how to socialize properly. I kept to myself these past 7 years and never hung out with any women one on one that aren't in family. I didn't go out much and when I do its by myself, with 1 friend, and with family. I don't do bars, clubs, or most nightlife stuff. Like 90% of things I like to do happens in daytime. I grew up not being social with women in particular. I was Impaired by how i felt about myself, didn't like my voice, my genetics (half korean half white), how women viewed me and never wanting to talk to me or get to know me. Never gained the confidence to pursue them and never knew the know-how to be with them. I feel like the more i talk the more my words get me in trouble. I have two guy friends and never had a female friend. I had two GF's that were introduced to me, but they were short relationships (4 months at most) I was 17 and 23. I lacked the socializing experience to keep the relationship going.So, yeah my project is trying to get used to being around women, have good lasting conversations, be comfortable going to places I never been to with her around, how to keep her happy for the long-run, etc etc.
I want to be able to tell a woman that she is the pork chop with gravy on top and I'm the applesauce that'll bring out her flavor. ?
I dont think' I'll mind 1 kid from her. I just feel it's too much to handle a kid right away for a person in my situation. I do get along with kids. Most things I like to do is family type stuff.
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