I (21/M) can’t wrap my head around this one. Backstory: around 1 1/2 months ago I matched with someone (23/F) from where I’m living but not my home town. We talk and it went well for a month and a half. Then She stopped answering me so I was like, “meh, I’m not gonna feel bad”.
A week and a half ago, she contacted me from another phone number and we started again. Then she did the same thing. On Friday, I arrived to the place where I’m living and she lives. Her place is a few blocks away from mine.
She wanted to go to my apartment but couldn’t until yesterday/a few hours ago. She was tipsy but not that drunk. We come up to the room and puts my hand on my chest and immediately see where this is going. One thing to another and we’re doing it. I was trying to put my condom on but it wouldn’t stretch back and she decided that we should try later. That “later” happened and all of a sudden says “let’s stop” I did not object and put ourselves in spoon. Again she takes my hand and puts it on her chest then again moves it to her stomach and finally moves in a way that wouldn’t let me hug her at all and fell asleep.
She just left right now and continued to make jokes even though she was hungover and I wanted to touch the subject but it didn’t seem the right moment to do so.
Would it be advisable to talk to her later in the PM or at night when she feels better from the hangover about what happened but not forcing her to do so or just leave it be? I’m all for consent and all that. if she doesn’t want to do something, then fine by me; I wouldn’t force it to happen. It’s just that I am weirded out about how that happened.
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