Guys i don't understand how things work in "dating life". I'm 21 and i dated like 5 girls i think, but just 2 of them i really liked. Now i'm talking again with the girl i first date 2 years ago which i really liked and i like her even now, but as a friend; and with another girl i met online but we didn't date yet.
I don't know if it's ok to talk with 2 girls at the same time, but that's what i have seen all over the internet. And i'm talking about post of different kind of websites like " Date multiple girls at a time so you won't seem so desperete for one ". And yes, it's kinda work but i don't feel OK.
I asked her on a date again ( the one who i dated 2 yrs ago ) and she said yes ( but i must metion that the things 2 years ago went super super bad, she was the first girl i ever dated and i was super pushy and needy af). Now she said yes again and i feel like she want something, maybe she is giving me another chance and i don't want to belive that she is into me or something wrong again and then i'll fuck up everyting …
But my true problem is that i don't really know how much should i text them. They didn't text me at all so far, i'm the one who initiate a conversation every time. Now with the one i just met i kinda understand that she isn't texting me, but about the other one i don't really know what to think. But yes, both of them respond to my text and i don't feel like they don't want to talk to me or something like that, conversations always goes well.
Are girls never initiate a conversation with us ever ? There are rare cases when a girl starts a conversation with someone and the most of them like the boys to initiate a conversation over text ? And how often should i text if they never start anything ?
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