He cancels plans
Cancelling plans every now and then and I’m talking once in a blue moon
is normal and acceptable, however there are instances when cancelling means you
would need to let a man go since he is simply NOT THAT INTO YOU. A man cancelling
plans when he has just started dating you is a massive red flag, any time a guy
cancels early in the dating game when everything is on the line he massively
risks losing you. If a guy can risk losing you, hes not that into you and
therefore is a waste of time. If you keep dating a man who does this it wont go
anywhere in the long run and you will end up wasting your time. Also a
boyfriend who cancels regularly, more than 2 or 3 times a year is also out. Again
he’s taking you for granted you’re not his number one priority and therefore don’t
need to be in his life.
He pulls away for too long
Pulling away for a week is usually him playing games, therefore one
week is ok. When he reaches out after a week, just act cool and like you didn’t
even notice he was gone, however its
when the pull away lasts longer than this, I’m talking two weeks or more that
things become unacceptable. If a guy pulls away for this long, again it’s
because he’s just not that into you, taking you for granted and therefore needs
to go bye bye.
He tells you another girl
wants him or he wants another woman
You as a Queen doesn’t compete with other women, period. Whenever he
says something like this, LEAVE as soon as you do this you gain his respect and
you automatically become a challenge as compared to the other woman.
He cheats on you or is
abusive
This one may seem like a no brainer but the amount of women who still
stick around after they find this out about a guy is beyond shocking. Have more
self respect and self love, a man like this doesn’t really change and you
forgiving him is 99.9% of the time not going to improve things. You will always
be looking over your shoulder and never fully trust him, YOU DESERVE BETTER
THAN THAT.
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