So two months ago, about 2 weeks before the quarantine started I drunkenly made out with a guy who I thought was very cute and I actually enjoyed his company/personality. We literally made out for about 3 hours and I wasn’t going to sleep with him, which became obvious after a point. We both go to the same college and we met because he lives right upstairs from me in our apartment. We didn’t see each other often even tho we lived in the same house. I had originally met him beginning of the semester through a friend of mine at bars then he realized we both live in the same house.
I gave him my phone number at the end of the night hoping to get a text from him or see him again cause I felt like we both had fun and enjoyed each other’s company; just shootin my shot. He never texted me, I got sick and never went out to bars near my college again cause quarantine. I stopped caring or expecting something from him after a week.
I texted him a month later in April just to see if I could strike up a conversation with him and go somewhere with it, but his responses weren’t disinterested, they were dry and boring like he doesn’t know how to talk.
A month goes by, it’s May and a couple days ago he facetimed me out of nowhere drunk at 5:30am. I brushed it off thinking he’s drunk it’s probably a booty call but then I remembered we’re in quarantine and we’re both home, no way we can see each other. He hung up the first time he called cause he was like “oh i woke you up you should go to sleep”. he calls me AGAIN 5 mins later asking me if i’m living back at our apartment, which confirmed he definitely knew who he called. Then he proceeded to ask me how i feel about an actor I like, which he would have not know unless he had been paying attention to my instagram stories. We ended the conversation with him being stupid drunk and asking me dumb questions.
I was waiting for him to text me later during the day to acknowledge or apologize but I got nothing, which I feel like isn’t normal. So I texted him playfully asking if he recovered from last night, and again dry responses. I kept the convo going and he would answer fast and continue the convo but again, it would be dry. Eventually I thought he would tell me why he called me but all he said was “i couldn’t tell you, sorry I woke you up” and the convo ended a couple texts later. HE KNOWS HE WOKE ME UP. he knows he woke me up because before i asked him why he called me, we talked about my favorite actor he mentioned while drunk. So he remembers the convo we had drunk but is gonna say “sorry i woke you up”. YOU CALLED ME TWICE.
Basically, this shouldn’t be a big deal but i’m an obsessive person (working on fixing it lol) and I had forgotten about this guy, but I got sad because I remembered us having so much in common and I very rarely connect with people so easily. I just want to know out of all people in his contacts list, why the hell would he call me TWICE while he’s drunk. I am the girl he made out with once, he could’ve called anyone else in the world but he chose me, someone he hasn’t talked to at all (except that one time in April) after hooking up. It’s probably not that deep but i’ve been drunk on very bad levels and have never done something that stupid so I want to know why he did that.
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