Hi, 24F here. So from the ages of 18-21 I had a serious bf. I just turned 24. For the past 3 years, I have met many guys that will want to hookup, act like they want to date, everything seems to be going great- and then I will be ghosted, or ignored to then be messaged MONTHS later. In the past year or 2, I have “talked” to like 5 guys. The past 3 have pretty much been casual hookups, 2 of them I went on an actual date with. The dates went good, and both of them said they would like to continue dating and verbally said when they would like to hangout again. One of them recently pretty much ghosted me and one of them messaged me recently after months of not speaking. The third one I didn’t really like anyways but the trend is just baffling to me. It makes me think something is wrong with me. What is up with not speaking to guys for months and them coming back around or what’s up with everything seeming to be going great and then all of a sudden it stops? It makes me not want to date anymore. Also- all of these guys i’ve met through Hinge or at a bar.
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